An Invitation To Indian Housewarming

Would like to thank Theva for his warm invitation to his housewarming... The only Chinese... haha...

A photo taken by Theve's 5 year old nephew... Superb photographer... Highly commendable!

Me & Yamuna

Yummy Indian food prepared by his family...

wat an IT idiot that I consider myself as...

(Wanted to include the following comments as post to reply Wai Theng's post. Somehow, I can't. Hence, a new entry to reply her. (pengz)

Dear Wai Theng, Uncle Weng has the same comments and opinion as you. Capricorn indeed think alike. I do agree with you that nobody is in the position to justify who is right or wrong in love. But, anything that involves feelings is never rational. I used to believe that one must learn to control their feeling and emotion (mind over heart); as such, such feeling can't be considered as love. True love is one that doesn't expect anything in return and one will only follow their heart. The chances of getting "bruised and upset" is higher but ironically, the process can be rewarding too :) Though this friend of mine may seem to be niave and silly (haha), nonetheless, it is indeed his state of innocence and belief in love that makes him willing to be the girl's guardian angel. He never expects anything in return... It is his altruisic love that makes him appear as a fool again and again.

I believe that everyone will go through this altruisic experience someday...

A heartwrenching blog from a fallen anGel...

Upon reading my friend's blog, my emotion is stirred. Many of us would berate and chide this girl for her selfishness. What is your stand?

The story between them goes like this... My friend has an immeasurable infatuation for this girl, who is attached. Knowing that my friend like her, she has always manipulate my friend's care and concern to her advantage. (Bloody feel like slapping and skinning her alive) Whenever she feels lonely or sad, she will always turn to my friend but at the end of the day, she will ditch him to go back to her boyfriend's embrace.

Her selfishness has created a great emotional turmoil to my friend. I understand that I have no rights to justify her behaviour and I do agree the fact that anything that involves feelings is never rational. Nonetheless, it still doesn't give her the rights to hurt my friend, not once but upteen times. Though I always remind my friend to take it easy and to caste their memories aside, I totally understand that it's easier said than done. The process of recovering from the daunting hurt and forgetting that special one is harrowing. It takes a day to fall in love but a life to forget that special one...

Strangers... (A part from my friend's blog)
"I do not want to be stuck in the quagmire again. Hurt is becoming a feeling that is too often felt. Perhaps, all these hurt felt can condition myself to a faster route of recovery.How can you be a stranger to someone whom you care so much about? When the hurt felt don't make you hate her but make you feel that you asked for it? How can one suddenly not care anymore? How...? In fact, in our 3plus hour of msn conversation just now, we ended on such an amicable note, there were of course heartwrenching moments but there were also lighthearted and cheerful moments that made giving up so hard.You know, this is like the fourth time that this decision is taken, but never ever in the past did I tell her to be cruel. To not contact me in whatever form ever. To not reply to any forms of contact from me if I relapse. My heart has died. Not a single tinge of idealistic hope that we will be together exists anymore. A pity that it is not numb yet. The pain is like an old-time wound been bruised and bloodied again, adding salt onto the old wound and adding new ones. She never fail to increase my pain felt everytime she hurt me. Perhaps, the more pain felt each time also represents the deeper I sink.I told her I will always remember her as the little girl with a sweet blush, will only remember the angel in her and will never forget her. Its true, I have always managed to defend her actions towards me, her thoughts, her feelings, the situation she faces. I don't blame her, I don't hate her, I asked for it.I am moving on. Let this be the last time I said this. I am moving on. Don't renege on your decision again, even if she break up again with her bf, you two are just not meant to be, don't even bother thinking about any possibility of getting together with her in future. Don't ever be that dumb again.Its sinking in...we are going to be strangers."

dOnuTs doNutS DonUts!!!!

Together with Ban Hoe, Raymond and Wai Theng, we came out with this silly poem during our "ang moh" lesson in lalaland school.

Donuts! Donuts! Donuts!
It's cheap, filling and good.
Bite it into half; fragrant filling oozing out.
Lick it with your tongue and you will feel so fun!
Cut it into halves and you get two smiley faces.
We can find it in many countries, a all time favourite with the young and old.
Excellent with all kinds of beverages.
Tastes good when you eat it piping hot or freezing.
Comes in great varieties, good for all occasion.
Always look cool with a donut in your hand!

RAYalicious Surprise Day!!!

13 January 2007.....Wai Theng and I (Lena) asked Uncle Weng out for dinner at Vivo City. Just like any other day, he happily agreed without suspecting what was installed for him for the rest of the night. It took the whole lot of us, great pain & effort in planning the GREAT surprise.

Yummy yummy food that we ordered from Food Republic Foodcourt.

The initial plan for the night was to have a feast at the nostalgic Food Republic and a movie. Such programmes would definately bored our uncle to death, especially when his birthday was the next day. Moreover, it will simply tarnish my reputation as an "Event Organiser" (quotes from Roy, Yanwei & Co.) hahaha... So I came out with a lie...

A WHITE LIE

In order to get Uncle to the real destination of the night, the real drama mama story began to unfold.... My Oscar's Award acting....

"Hey! Alex (a friend of mine whom he met before) is in trouble, he need me to send him some money at a KTV in Orchard. Do you think you can accompany me to go as I'm not too sure hows the place is like?" (with a panicky voice & look)

Together with Wai Theng's brilliant acting, there we were, at Orchard Party World. Needless to say, Raymond's jaw dropped open when I opened the door. Instead of S'pore Ah Bengs & Ah Sengs, friends from our lalaland school, Ban Hoe, Cabrina, Karen, Norman and most importantly, his gay partner, Peter were the people whom he saw. Uncle was in consternation when everybody send their birthday wishes to him. Of course, the best gift of the night was the presence of Peter, someone whom he always talk about.


Strike a pose- TWIST

Lets sing uncle a birthday song... ...

Happy Birthday to you,

Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to Raymond,

Happy Birthday to you!

Sovil Titus- a gift from us...

The Best Shot Of The Night...

What a passionate singing with all his heart and LUNGS!!!

Once again, Happy happy birthday, Uncle Weng... ... Hope that this special & dramatic night is one of your most memorable day in your life...

Special Thanks

The settting of this blog is especially dedicated to Uncle Weng and Wai Theng. Sending a million thanks and hugs to you for all the painstaking effort in planning all the fantastic activities on 5 January 2007, a day of fun-filled programmes for me.

Being kept in the dark, I was not told about the day's programmes. I was in a state of feverish anticipation while guessing what I would be doing for that day.

My itinary for that day:

7.15am I was picked up by Uncle Weng.
7.45am We went to pick up Wai Theng.
8.30am We reached East Coast Park.

Here was my first surprise of the day. My sweetheart, Wai Theng had prepared some really yummy snacks. I'm sooooooooo touched by her as she woke up at 5 plus in the morning to prepare the food while Uncle Weng prepared a bottle of hot Earl's Grey tea. A wonderful breakfast by the beach, as the foamy waves splashed gently on the shore, with my best pals... ...

The second surprise, the best one, was when I accidentally kicked the ball into the sea. All of us panicked and refused to get ourselves wet. Hence, we waited and hoped that the waves will send the ball back but in contary, we watched the ball drifted away in the big open sea. Our, forever kind and sweet Wai Theng panicked when Uncle proclaimed that he was going to get the ball. As for me, I went to take my camera to take the best shots when I heard Uncle said, " Don't worry! I swam 1000m depth before." (hahaha) If not, you won't get to see the photo of a man plunging into the icy-cold water to "save" the ball.

Oh! Look at the faraway ships... ...

Best shot of the year- Splish Splosh Splash!!!


Of course, my wonderful day did not just end with a picnic at the beach. More surprises and exciting activities were to come.... ...


Went to K box for our KTV from 11am-2pm. Wai Theng and I were trying different positions to get the best lighting effect for cheesy photo-taking while uncle just slacked at one corner saying that we were crazy and childish. Come on Uncle Weng! Get some grOOve man!



Went to catch the movie, "Blood Diamond" at GV Marina, after a good 3 hours of K song. A great movie in saving all the men out there from splurging in buying diamonds for their girlfriends or wives but diamond lovers might frown upon. Did my day just stop here?

of course NOT!

I was told to go home and get change for dinner and perhaps, a party. Until then, I was still kept in suspense of the dining venue. It was a mad rush as Wai Theng and I had to wash up and get ready in less than 45 minutes. She didn't even have the time to go home but thankfully, she was able to wear my skirt, without the skirt falling off. Hmmm... it shows that I'm not that fat after all. (hee) Despite the crazy rush, to my delight, Cabrina and Norman had joined us for the dinner. In the car, I was just like a child, at fever pitch, looking out the car window while guessing where on earth were we heading for our dinner. After an arduous car ride (thankie Cabrina), we finally reached.... ....

Yes... there we were... ... at the Night Safari!!!! I was certainly touched by this group of friends. You guys really rock, spicing up my mundane life at our lalaland school.

The Award Winning Photo of the night... ...

(Wohahahaha!!!! Yummy yummy french fries and ice-cream!!!)



After biding farewell to Cabrina and Norman at around 11pm, I was taken to my last stop of the night, Movida at St James Power Station, my favourite club. Yuppy!!! Though only the three of us there, our partying spirit hasn't been low. We had so much fun and dance.

We ended this tiring but definately an exciting and enjoyable day at 4 am. Once again, my heartfelt thanks are especially extended to Cabrina, Norman, Raymond and Wai Theng. This is definately one of the best day of my life and this memory will be etched in my mind for life. Thank you guys!